Is it mere coincidence that July 30 is both the eve of St. Ignatius of Loyola’s feast day and also marks two very different observances: the International Day of Friendship and the World Day Against Trafficking in Persons? Perhaps. But maybe there’s also something deeper to reflect on here.
Friendship is one of life’s most precious gifts. True friends stand by us not only when we’re laughing and thriving, but especially when things get dark—when we feel crushed, when we’re falsely accused, or when life’s blows seem too heavy to bear. It’s in these shadowy moments that real friendship reveals its luminous power. Friends don’t always fix the problems, but they remind us that we’re not alone. They see who we are beneath the labels, the mistakes, or the pain. They offer us loyalty, hope, and sometimes simply their silent presence, which can mean more than a thousand words.
It’s fitting that this reflection comes on the eve of St. Ignatius’ day. Ignatius himself endured profound suffering—wounds, misunderstandings, even imprisonment. Yet throughout, he relied on deep friendships that sustained him. His companions, who became the first Jesuits, were bound not just by a mission but by genuine affection and trust.
At the same time, July 30 is also the World Day Against Trafficking in Persons. This cruel reality stands in direct opposition to what friendship and human community should be. Trafficking exploits, degrades, and isolates people, stripping them of their dignity and treating them as commodities rather than persons. It’s a stark reminder of why authentic friendship and solidarity matter so much. When we recognize each person as someone worthy of love, respect, and freedom, we become part of the fight against such horrific abuses. And it’s crucial that we do not remain silent in the face of these crimes, turning a blind eye is not an option. Speaking up, raising awareness, and denouncing such cases are essential steps to protect the vulnerable and uphold the dignity of every human being. So maybe it’s not just a curious accident that these dates line up. Maybe it’s a small nudge to cherish our friendships more deeply, to be the kind of friends who walk with others in their darkest hours—and also to stand up, in whatever ways we can, against systems and actions that destroy lives. Because ultimately, friendship isn’t only about shared good times; it’s about defending each other’s humanity, no matter what.
Pre-doctoral researcher at University of the Basque Country